From Neck to Head: Rethinking Gender Dynamics and Feminism Lite.
In conversations, I often hear people say that ‘men are the heads and women are the necks.’ Initially, I saw some sense in it, thinking, ‘Well, the neck influences where the head turns, so maybe being the neck isn’t so bad.’
If you identify as a feminist and you echo this sentiment, you might find yourself caught in the realm of “feminism lite.”
I stumbled upon the concept of feminism lite in an article some months back, and I found myself pondering, “Which one is feminism lite again?” The article referenced Chimamanda Adichie’s ‘Dear Ijeawele,’ where she warns against the dangers of what she terms Feminism Lite — the idea of conditional female equality. She vehemently rejects this notion, likening feminism to pregnancy: you either are or you are not; you either believe in full equality for women, or you do not.
This revelation peeled back layers, revealing how many feminists unknowingly embrace feminism lite-a dilution of the core tenet of feminism.
Picture feminism lite as a traveler hesitating at the crossroads, seeking validation from a wider audience. It’s a stance selectively embraced, subject to convenience and crowd favour. This type of feminism accepts men’s innate superiority, yet demands they treat women with decency. It’s a celebration of men’s fleeting gestures of treating women as equals, when in truth, such acts should be the norm.
Too often, we find ourselves unconsciously watering down our feminism, so we won’t be labeled as ‘angry feminists.’ This conditional feminism focuses on surface-level changes, neglecting the structural inequalities that fester beneath the surface.
According to the World Economic Forum’s 2018 report, we’re still 108 years away from achieving absolute gender equality. Despite societal advancements, we’re far from an equal world.
There’s still much work to be done to break down the barriers hindering gender equality. So, today I celebrate women who continue to take action to break down barriers of stereotypes. You all are the real MVPs.
Happy International Women’s Day ❤
